For years I've been looking for this and there's just nothing coming our way. It's a bit ridiculous at this point, we're not talking about a third party extension there.
The Shuriken system works with multiple panels; a main one and one for each module (Emission, Shape, etc.). One could argue that once a particle component has been set up properly there's little reason to change it. Ok but there aren't even basic actions for the most mundane of typical functions. For example, how do I stop particles from playing with the default actions?